How To Survive And Thrive After You Lose Someone You Love
How can you thrive after losing someone you love?
Trust me, when someone walks out on you, they are doing you a favor. They gave you an opportunity to live a better life without them in it.
They gave us an opportunity to be who we want and need to be, because they are not in the picture anymore!
This is a way the Universe steps in and gives us a chance to be happy.
- A chance to move on and live our own lives.
- A chance to learn what is important to us and what is not.
- A chance to grow and become better.
- A chance to find a new love, a new life, and a new happiness.
So when someone walks out on you, remember they are not taking your happiness away from you.
They are actually giving it back to you!
They gave you an opportunity to live a better life without them in it! You just have to take it! I know it sounds harsh but sometimes we need that wake-up call!
It sounds harsh, but take the opportunity to live a better life without them! Sometimes we need that wake-up call.
If you’re still struggling to get over them, watch this free class where I walk you through how to let go of the past while overcoming codependency patterns, fear of loss patterns and most of all the belief that your not enough to attract a person who loves and respects you.
The truth about fear of losing
We never asked for too much but the problem was we kept expecting it from the wrong person.
They didn’t know how to return all of the good fortune they were receiving and when there was nothing left, their lack of awareness caused them to take everything until there was nothing else to take from you.
You see, you actually gained something out of this because now that they’re gone, you have created space for something better to come into your life.
You have learned what it takes to be with someone who is grateful for all the good things you bring into their life and who is willing to work with you to make your relationship a priority in their lives.
I know it’s hard but you need to see that this is a blessing in disguise.
The only way we can do that is by learning how we got here and changing our behavior so that we don’t continue patterns of attracting people like this into our lives again!
How do I get over them?
So, if you’re asking yourself, “how do I get over them?” then ask yourself these questions:
- Is there anything I can learn from this person or situation?
- How can I use these learnings for all my relationships?
- Have they taught me everything they had to teach me?
Writing down the thoughts or feelings that you are experiencing in a journal can help you to feel free, present, and ready to see things from a new perspective. It will also allow you to cultivate love and compassion for yourself as well as your situation.
Conclusion
Take back your power by letting go of what you can’t change.
If you’re still having trouble letting go, try this statement:
“I honor my feelings and all that I have learned from this experience, but I am ready to let them go.”
If someone else has done it before, then you can do it too!
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