How to Give Love and Get More of What You Want
Looking for love in all the right places
Are you looking for love? But not just any kind of love — the kind that’s lasting, fulfilling and makes you feel happy. The kind of love that inspires you to be your very best self, and allows you to share yourself authentically with someone else. Because everyone wants to find love — right?
Well, maybe not so much. While it’s natural to want a partner who makes you feel good, the search for love can be challenging. After all, there are so many different factors involved in making a relationship work—similar interests, values, beliefs and even chemistry.
But the good news is that there are simple ways to improve your chances of finding someone who’s the perfect match for you. In fact, by following these five tips on how to give love and get more of what you want from a partner, you’ll be well on your way to creating an amazing romance that will last forever…
Set your standards early
“When we fail to set boundaries and hold people accountable, we feel used and mistreated.” ~ Brené Brown.
If you’re still single in your late early forties — or even beyond — it might be time to evaluate the kind of relationship you’re looking for. Choosing the right partner is one of the most important decisions you’ll ever make, so it’s vital to set clear standards from the beginning. Wondering how to do that? Start by asking yourself a few questions. What are your must-haves and must-not haves?
What kind of relationship do you want? Is it long-term? Short-term? Open or closed?
Are there any deal breakers you need to be on the lookout for? It may sound counterintuitive to decide what you don’t want in a partner before you know what you do, but doing so can save you a lot of time and heartache in the long run. Plus, the more specific you are, the easier it will be to screen potential partners and weed out those who don’t fit the bill.
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Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there and do the work
If you are recently divorced or single and want to meet someone new, getting out there and meeting people is the only way to do it.
You may want to spend your evenings at home binge-watching your favorite TV shows, but if you don’t put yourself out there, you’ll never find a romantic partner.
That’s not to say you have to go to bars every weekend or go on a million Tinder dates. Instead, try one of these methods:
1.get out of your house (and your routine) meet new people and work on becoming the best version of yourself.Doing so will not only help you find love, but it will also lead to a happier, more fulfilling life in general.
2 use the law of resonance in your favour, keep a gratitude journal every evening log in to 3 things you like about yourself.
3. let of old unconscious patterns and beliefs when it comes to love ( I can help you with all these 3 steps)
Stop wasting time on the wrong people
If your attempts to find a new partner aren’t panning out, it might be time to re-evaluate your strategy. Chances are you’re spending a lot of time with people who aren’t the type you want to attract.
If you’re not sure who these people are, it can be helpful to create a list of the qualities you’re looking for in a partner. Once you have that list, you can use it to evaluate your current friendships and other relationships.
If someone doesn’t fit the bill, it’s time to make a clean break. This doesn’t mean you have to break up with your friends — or even end the relationship, for that matter — but you may want to spend less time with people who aren’t compatible with your future goals.
The journey to finding love can be long and challenging, but it doesn’t have to be impossible. By setting your standards early, staying open to possibilities, and not wasting time on the wrong people, you’ll be well on your way to finding a partner who’s perfect for you. And even if you’re single right now, you don’t have to remain that way.
All it takes is a few simple tweaks to your outlook on dating and a regular game plan for meeting new people. So what are you waiting for?
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