New Year’s resolutions are a way to judge ourselves.And this is why New Year’s Resolution do not work. These are created from an energy of lack and scarcity rather than from an energy of love and acceptance.
Think about it: We are saying to ourselves and the world:
I do not like what I see in the mirror I need to change now!
We want to change our bodies image, change our relationship situation or the results we are creating in our businesses.
The truth is that change starts when we are ready to be thankful for what is in the here and now. From the position of no judgment of what is, we can now allow for change to come about with ease and joy.
For example, we crave an intimate relationship while we do not like our body, we constantly judge it put it on a strict diet, we do not listen to our needs, we think we know better than our body does.
So, how can we attract the right relationship with someone else or a better financial situation ie more ideal clients and opportunities when our inner voice keeps saying:
” You should change xyz BEFORE expecting something better to manifest”.
What if the change could manifest easily because we choose to be in total acceptance of our body, our lives as it is now?
Before attracting more intimacy in our relationship with the others, more money or a better relationship with the Divine, we could choose to create peace and unconditional acceptance now.
Like attracts like:
Who do we need to be to create space so that new good stuff shows up?
Before committing to change the first step would be to commit to being in allowance of “what is”.
From the energy of total acceptance, gratitude, and love with what you have and what you do not have yet.
The art of allowance is about saying yes thank you for who I am being right now just by observing this inner voice that tends to creep repeating all day long ” yes but..”
Even the “yes-buts” ( your inner objections) are here to show you there is an opportunity for you to accept yourself with this habit.
Three easy generative question that helps me and my clients expand my capacity to receive (The R of my S.P.I.R.A.L. signature model) are:
-If I did not know what criticism felt like, who would I be now in the space of total easy allowance?
-What can I choose now from that space? What is my need right now and how can I allow myself to receive it?
-What is my need right now and how can I allow myself to receive it?
Would your best friend like to be judged by you all the time? Of course not. No one likes to be excluded so why are analyzing you doing this to yourself constantly by coanalyzing, measuring, separating, feeling guilty, sorry or even fearful of losing or not being enough?
Receiving is first of all about receiving yourself as you are in total acceptance.
Change becomes then natural like breathing or drinking a glass of water because from this very space of neutrality with no point of view and the consciousness that all is ONE we allow the infinite possibilities to show up in a fun and spontaneous way.
Are you willing to be willing to expand to this space of creation?
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