Is your inner critic your best friend and to make him happy, are you still listening to him 24/7?
Is the inner critic the CEO of your relationships, your business and your life?
The irony of all is that you more you “force” yourself to do things the slower the things go for you.
If you want prosperity, abundance and ease.. you have a choice. You can consciously choose to just slow down.
All the internal rules we make are all made up… and even if we know that the strict rules do not work we still continue making up rules or listening to the same voice repeating the same old song of how things “should be”.
If you believe that life is a gift does this mean that when we struggle to have things under control we demonstrate our value and therefore we can savour the gift of life? Is there a condition of when life is a gift and when it isn’t?
The energy of “force” or push is counterproductive and so is the energy of control.
We feel more secure when we think we control things yet how come our body is under stress, our heart beats faster we feel tired and exhausted? Do we really feel more secure or do we control situations to avoid feeling lost or judged for it?
Do we really feel more secure with this pattern or do we control situations to avoid feeling lost confused or judged if we fail?
What is the antidote of “forcing- things -to- happen”?
How do we trust when we are stuck with not knowing how?
Trust is about not knowing how it is about trusting the higher intelligence that always has your back without you needing to know how it does it.
Another good medicine for forcing, controlling, trying too hard or managing is being in the space of non-attachment.
This space of freedom where you consciously choose to trust after you have given your best gives you the luxury of savouring freedom, joy and happiness and therefore attracting more of it.
So, next time you catch yourself ” trying hard” forcing things to happen the way you want, controlling you can repeat the following clearing statement inspired from the Z point process:
“I clear all the ways I block myself from stepping into my power”.
“I clear all the ways in me that stop me from trusting that the Universe has my back.”
“I clear all the ways that I am scared I am going to fail again”.
If you are struggling with wanting to control things or you have a tendency to “make” things happen without having the results you want if you want more ease and magic in your life, please feel free to contact me for a free conversation over the phone or Skype.